In a time when trained executives are begging for jobs and more families are losing their income every day, I quit my job yesterday.
I took a risky step for my own benefit- and I am proud of that. I’ve let go of something that was pulling me down and opened up a new world of possibilities.
I was the Marketing Director for a successful political media firm- a job any graduate would be thrilled to receive straight out of college. But I don’t like working in politics (although I do enjoy a good debate). And my tasks were very little marketing. But that was all okay; I did stay there for two years, after all. And I enjoyed those two years.
But lately the demand for hours was growing. Missing dinner plans and the gym and then taking work home…losing my Saturday because an early call…working weekends in addition to a full week. They were definitely 24/7 and there was no “off” time. Putting my family, friends, sleep and activities on hold because I would have to work at any time was too much. My pay was appropriate for 9-5… not 24/7. I signed on for a fairly standard job that turned into constant stress that they (either of my two bosses) might call and demand my next six hours.
Other issues in the environment were off, too. (I omit those for the sake of office politics and respect.) I’d come home at 8:30 in tears and just have nothing else to give. My job was sucking the life out of me and it wasn’t worth it. Without a balance of life and work I became drained and could no longer give anything my best.
So I told my boss everything and resigned.
It was the scariest, most freeing thing I’ve ever done.
Often people are respected for the positions they hold, and I let go of a good one. I sacrificed a comfortable salary and big office for my well-being. I am already breathing easier.
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Ashley.. Im so proud of you, that must have been really hard!! Kudos to you girl!!!
Good for you–it sounds like this was the right decision for you. I’m sure it’s also scary too, but you have to think of your sanity and well being!!
Good for you. It sounds like you were pretty miserable, and I’m glad you had the courage to do what’s best for you.
Excited to hear what’s next in your life!
Wow! Good luck with whatever it is you’re going to pursue next.
CONGRATULATIONS sweeheart! You are my hero – I’ve thought about doing it SO many times because I am in the same boat right now. Unfortunately to make our huge mortgage payments I need to wait until I find something else, but that IS SO AWESOME AND AMAZING!!!
GOOD FOR YOU! Congratulations Ashley! It sounds like you did the best thing for you – no matter how scary it was. I can’t wait to hear what you do next
Everyone: You all are amazing. Reading your comments really helped me to focus on all the positives of my decision. I just posted what’s next!
Wow, congratulations and good for you Ashley! I bet you are so ready to move on from this and start somewhere new and fresh! Best of luck girl!
Ashley — I missed this post entirely. Uh. I am hoping to get the courage (and figure out a good financial situation) to do the same thing within the next year. I don't know how I'll do it . . . but I have to. I HATE working a desk job that isn't flexible. Anyway, thanks for the inspiration.
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