The healthy ashley Thanksgiving recap.. where to begin?
The long weekend included a missed race, my first funeral, three cities and tons of food… and concluded with coming home to a sick puppy.
My first Thanksgiving as a vegan actually went exceptionally well. Lindsey and Ryan also had their first Thanksgivings as vegans and theirs went well too! Unlike them I took the easy route bringing only one dish and searching out vegan food that would already be there. I certainly could have put more effort into what I could eat but with everything else going on this weekend, one meal couldn’t take center stage.
Normally I just drink water, but in the holiday spirit I alternated between water, cream soda and apple cider.
While everyone was enjoying a shrimp appetizer I munched on some walnuts to keep my appetite at bay.
My mom did a wonderful ob decorating the table.
I brought a simple quinoa mixture with lightly fried tofu, peas, onion and teryaki sauce to share. I figured that even if I ate nothing else, this dish would satisfy me. It was tasty! Everyone else seemed to like it too.
Most of the people photos are on other’s cameras (I as busy taking photos of the food!), but here’s a candid shot of my view of the table
My Aunt Faye made a beautiful salad with romaine lettuce, tomatoes, sprouts, cucumbers, peppers, dried berries, walnuts, mushrooms, a sweet vinaigrette and more. I was able to grab a dairy-less portion right before she added the feta for everyone else to enjoy. ![]()
I didn’t need anything made special for me, but I did ask my mom in advance to hold vegetables to the side before she added any animal products. It worked well! My plate ended up included my quinoa mix, steamed broc, string beans, a cranberry mix and sweet potatoes. You can pretty much double this plate
The main meal was easy since I’ve been a vegetarian for nine years and am already used to eating different from everyone else. This year I knew the challenging part would be dessert!
I tried to pick up a vegan ice cream but the only store open didn’t carry any so I was (vegan) dessert-less. I did want somethign so I created my own quick version of apple cobbler.
I microwaved 1/2 a chopped apple with some soy milk, cinnamon, sugar and oats for about two minutes and topped the mix with granola, broken graham crackers and a bit of PB. It was a totally satisfying, filling dessert!
I used to expect my stomach to feel sick after Thanksgiving dinners. I was used to stomach pain anyway but everything on Thanksgiving day seemed to be a landmine for me. Enjoying the day as a vegan was so much different. I still enjoyed the company and good food, but this year I didn’t feel bad from the food at all. It was amazing to actually feel good about everything I ate.
That’s me with my brother Hunter and sister Madison!
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Late Wednesday night David’s great grandfather passed away. He was 92-years-old and had a full life, but the loss was still tragic. Saturday I attended the funeral with David’s family.
I’ve been fortunate enough to not have to attend a funeral until now. Honestly, the thought of seeing a dead person and everyone mourning creeped me out. Instead, the funeral was sweet. It was beautiful to see that even though he had passed, this man had his loving family there because they loved him. Nonetheless, it was sad to lose him.
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My dad headed to the other side of Florida to Daytona Beach for the long weekend so right after the funeral Saturday David and I drove with my brother and sister to meet him for one night.
We stayed in Daytona for less than 24 hours, but we had a blast! There was drinking (not me), karaoke, hot cars, late night pizza runs and practical jokes.
The night began at The Oyster Pub. I couldn’t believe there was not a single vegan thing on the menu…. not even a salad to speak of! Luckily I had eaten before and was able to get something after. I think bar food and seafood restaurants are the worst for vegans to try to navigate.
I couldn’t get over the cars in Daytona! At least half of the cars on the street were either incredibly expensive or impressive antiques. I snapped a few photos as we headed home. ![]()
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Between my lack of healthy food (unpictured… just trust me
and emotional events and living out of a suitcase for 3 cities and 4 days, I am ready to start a new week. I’m ready to start this next week on the right foot!
How was your Thanksgiving? Did you make a special dish?



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Wow, great dish you made!
I hope you have a lovely week! Sorry about the loss
I had my first vegan Thanksgiving too. We had around 30 people at our dinner. I brought an entree + vegan rolls with me. I was amazed at how many people left off the cheese + used veggie subs (Earth Balance, soy milk, mock meats) in their normal recipes. It was awesome!
so creative about the vegan apple crisp on thanksgiving!
Glad you had a great first time Vegan Thanksgiving experience. I love that you were entirely resourceful and made your own dessert! See, even a vegan needs her sweets!
I am so sorry to hear about David's grandfather. You guys are in my prayers!
Take care hun!
This was also the first Thanksgiving for me where I was not so full I wanted to die afterward, so apparently I'm learning not to be such a twit!
This means there is hope for Christmas…
Looks like a great time, despite your loss (sorry for that).
I made a lot of desserts, one of which was vegan black bean brownies and a huge hit! I also made a squash side dish that was vegan (I posted it the other day). No one knew it was vegan and everyone loved it!
Your did looks fabulous! Totally something I woulda made. I can really relate to your feeling of satistfaction after your dinner.. Holidays used to be about food to me, now is about good company (and food but in a GOOD way)!!
Glad you had a great Thanksgiving.
Your Thanksgiving meal looks so good, vegan or not. I always like it when my mom sets aside plain veggies for me because she knows I like them more than dressed ones.
And my condolences to David and his family.
Hey chica I hope you feel a lot better this morning!! Your plate at Thanksgiving looks soooo YUMMY! ya for the deliciousness of veganism! I am very sorry to hear about the funeral and sick puppy. hopefully this week is amazing and allows you time to relax and get back to your usual smiley/bubbly self! As always you and your man are such a CUTE couple!!!xoxo!
I LOVE your table setting. It is gorgeous! -Jessica @ How Sweet
i went vegan for three days over the break and felt great! i was super sick so i just wanted to eat a lot of veggies and there are always so many on thanksgiving. my fam doesn't really add a lot to the veggies, so it was really easy. are you the oldest of your sibs?
Wow – what a busy, family-filled, fun holiday week/weekend! I'm glad you had a good t-giving! Mine was pretty chill – stayed in town, shopped a lot, cooked a lot and took lots of time off work – nice!
Your quinoa dish looks so delicious, as does everything on your Thanksgiving plate. It is sad, but bars like that are the worst places for vegans! If I am starving and find myself in a situation like that, I usually get fries (unhealthy, I know). Neat cars in Daytona!
I had my first vegan Thanksgiving too and it was great to feel awesome about everything I ate.
I did not make a special dish but my mother-in-law made a three bean salad for me and held my veggies to the side before adding butter or anything to them. I brought my own Smart Balance Light! It was so nice
Oh, I did bring my own dessert, I lied. But it was leftovers from a previous night.
sorry to hear about david's great-grandfather. i know i was very close with my great-grandmother before she passed away, but that was a long time ago (1992).
I was traveling for Thanksgiving so didn't have any of the normal eats, but I did wear my turkey pin.
Before we left for our trip I was thinking of you, Ryan, and the other vegetarian/vegan bloggers and thinking that foreign travel could be hard while sticking to your healthy choices. I'm happy to report though that there were almost as many vegetarian restaurants as regular restaurants in Singapore, as well as plenty in Thailand and Malaysia. Plus, in Singapore it seems like almost everyone speaks English so I'm sure you'd be able to find out if items met your vegan standards. There were also booths on every street corner and vending machines serving soy milk and soy shakes. I got a mango one and it was yummy. Add that to the fact that Singapore is beautiful and safe and you've got a great vacation spot.
I think I read it, but didn't leave a comment – Congratulations on your marathon! Awesome job!
wow! your thanksgiving looks great!
jenna
I'm not a vegan, but I made our Thanksgiving runner-friendly by making healthy dishes from farmers market goodies. I shared your feeling of post-meal happiness at what I'd just eaten — imagine that! Check out our full menu here: http://tinyurl.com/yau54fr